Statues of Critics

Thanks for this image go to jwarletta at sxc.hu

 

So a couple months ago, Mark Lee (from Third Day - who played two nights ago on The Tonight Show with Jay Leno) made a great blog post entitled “There isn’t a statue of a critic.” Here’s some of what he said:

“Look for the good in the world and talk about that. Be an encourager. Take risks. … Try to make the world a better place. … Avoid being a critic at all costs. It’s no fun, and it brings people down. I’m going to say it one more time: find the good and praise it. If it’s not there, make your own.”

 That’s great advice! I also love the well-known lines from Theodore Roosevelt on the subject:

“It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, and comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows the great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.”

For some reason, I’m often drawn to point out the exception, to play the devil’s advocate. I don’t care to be argumentative, and I actually don’t often look to start or join a debate. Maybe it’s just that I think bringing in another view is just part of the process of seeking out truth. Or maybe it’s the exception that proves the rule! :o ) Often, it’s not as much a matter of one thing being wrong and another right as finding an additional consideration.

This said, let me point out the one place where a critic adds value. If you are the “doer of deeds,” you must view your own work with a critical eye… at least at some stage in the creative process. This could extend to those near you as well. What about with friends of yours that are also producing art of some kind? All of us are probably pretty fragile in some ways – though perhaps we’d rather not be (and I think it’s good for us all to have at least one friend who think everything we do is great). However, it may be helpful to have some friends who are willing to chime in with other thoughts as well.

Do you think there is a place for critique among friends? If you’re specifically asked to give input on a work in progress, that seems like a pretty clear opening, but even these times should be treated carefully. Where and when and how do you think critique can be a good thing? Any suggestions on how to do this best?

Oh, and Mark… when I was looking on SXC.hu for a picture to use with this post, I couldn’t even find a *photo* of a critic… :o )

-= another Watercooler Wednesday post =-

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  • Did you get my last comment? It was brilliant : )

  • Alicia

    What a great post Jonathan!

    To answer, yes, I think there is absolutely a place for critique among friends. I greatly appreciate the friends who chose to be honest both when I’ve asked them to be and when I don’t ask, but when they think it to be in my best interest–even if I don’t necessarily like it :o )

    I don’t really know how to answer the second question. I think that it is always best to tread lightly even if, as you said, you are asked specifically for your opinion. A long time ago I was asked to edit something for a friend. When I began to put my editing marks in, the friend got pretty upset with my editing and took the critique quite personally. I didn’t realize when they said “edit” they just meant “read.” :o ) I’ve had a few people ask me to do this more recently for grad school applications and such and it still makes me nervous because I wonder what the expectation of me is.

  • Great post, Jonathan!

    I hope there is a place for critique among friends. None of my friends are perfect, nor am I, and if there was no room for critique, there would be no room for growth. Or change. Or sanctification.

    Yuck! Imagine me being me forever. God help us if critique is over between friends!

    “Better are the wounds of a friend than the kisses of an enemy.” Proverbs 27:6

    When is a harder question.

    If I have sin in my life that is destroying me and those around me, I hope I have godly friends like Nathan with King David who will rebuke me, hoping that I will repent and turn to God.

    On the other hand, constant criticism is debillitating.

    “A fool’s wrath is known at once,
    But a prudent man covers shame.”
    Proverbs 12:16

    I think it depends on the sin, the depth of the relationship, and the motives behind it.

    Most importantly, I think it depends on love: our love for God and His character, and our love for people and our desire that they become like Jesus.

  • Jonathan

    Thanks for the comments, guys; good thoughts!!! For me, it’s hard to find the personal balance between always wanting to find a way to make things even better and simply enjoying things as they are.

  • Hope your vacation is going so well! Hey, when you get a second, I tagged you over at my blog….you have the distinction of being the only guy tagged…..

  • Alicia

    Hey Jonathan… I miss your blogging!

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